Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts

Why I started Blogging

Saturday, 25 April 2015

So I gathered that lots and lots of people join the blogging world everyday and I wanted to share with you the reasons that I started a blog. For a couple of years now, I have been following multiple blogs and still enjoy reading them daily, infact I loved reading them so much that I wanted to start my own. The only problem was that I didn't know what to write about, and then it occured to me that surely I should write about anything I have a passion for. Shouldn't blogging be a place where you can share opinions and views on things on any topic that takes your interest? I think so. I feel like blogging is an escape from the normal world and a way to connect to people who enjoy writing and doing the same things as you, if anything, it's a great way to make a wide variety of friends with different interests. It's also a platform where we can express our interests that contrast from school work and gcse's and it's often a great escape to sit at a computer and just write about the things you love. 


I genuinely think of blogging as a big community where everyone is supportive of each other's ideas and opinions and a place where other bloggers have the chance to offer their own advice, opinions and stories. Recently, I have read a few posts about bloggers who want to quit blogging because of the way it has changed from what it used to be and I want to let you know that that is something I really don't want to happen. I may only have had my blog for two months, but I have already love it, I've fallen in love with the community where everyone is supportive of each other. It's so surreal to me to think how we can make friends with people so similar to us through writing about things we love.  I think it would be nice to think of this blog as a sort of diary for myself where I can look back in weeks, months and who knows, maybe even years and be proud of the person I've become, and look at the changes I made on that journey, whilst remembering the wonderful memories made along the way. 

I do want to make it very clear though before carrying on with my blog, that by any means, I am not doing this to see how many followers I can get, or see how popular I can get, I am simply doing this because it is what I love doing, writing and sharing my opinions about the things I love. So long as the people who read my posts, get something from them or at least enjoy them, then that's all that matters to me. Blogging definitely shouldn't become a competition between bloggers and who can get the most followers because all I want to do is to be able to express my opinions to a community where I am not judged for showing you who I am, what I like and what I do. I really would like this to become a friendly, positive, supportive platform of people who are honestly proud of what their blogging friends have achieved. I just love blogging, it's that simple. 

My main aim is to be able to make people happier and interested in reading my blog, I hope do this by posting on Sundays weekly, I also hope to blog with the idea to inspire other bloggers and give them advice and ideas on blog posts. Although I haven't had my blog for long, I feel like I have learnt a few essential tips along my journey so far, and what a better way to share them with you than on this post. 

My five tips for starting a blog: 

1) Have a reason to start it, it can be simple, maybe you have been inspired, or maybe you have a strong passion for the things you want to blog about. Once you have that reason, write about it and share your opinions with your readers. 

2) Post regularly, this can be weekly, fortnightly or daily, but make it manageable so you don't feel like you are letting your readers down. I suggest weekly as most blog posts take a long time to write as there is a lot of thought that goes into each and every one of them. 

3) Always keep in contact with the viewers who show you love. If someone takes the time to comment, leave them a comment back, this is a great way to create a happy, loving community. 

4) Make each blog post interesting and have a similar amount of passion into each one. If you can't think of anything to write about, then don't write, always write with interest. 

5) Try and leave advice, tips and comments on other people's blogs that you find interesting. It helps them to improve and gives them a self-esteem boost to know that you like what they are writing. 

I hope you liked this late introduction on why I started blogging and I hope to continue doing what I love. I really have become so interested in writing weekly, it isn't a chore and I have found a hobby that I've instantly fell in love with. Until next week, goodbye!

Alex Lauren  ♥

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Welcome to my life

Sunday, 29 March 2015

Where better to start than with a story of my life so far? It's a long post so make sure you are sitting comfortably with a cuppa.



My name is Alex and I am very passionate about beauty, lifestyle, fitness and photography and so I thought what better way to share my passion than to blog about it? For a while now, I have always loved reading and flicking through the Vogue and Elle fashion magazines, reading blogs and wondering whether I could do it one day - not having the confidence to actually do any of it, but look where I am today! I am no beauty goddess but I do love learning new skills, tips on makeup and general life tips, my aim is to share them with you through this blog. I've always believed that I was a realist, I agreed with things once I had seen them done and never over thought something, I don't see the point in being negative all the time because when will you ever learn to be happy that way, but at the same time I don't understand how people are so positive all the time as what happens when something goes wrong? I admire those people so much, but that's just not me, I think about realistic things, however that doesn't mean that I don't like to dream :)




Before reading my blog you need to know that I love quotes and they are a huge inspiration to me. I feel that they help me when times are hard or when I am struggling a little, a bit like a few weeks ago when something upset me that I couldn't really tell anyone about. I kept going and believed that bad things always happen in life, because if life was easy then what would be the point in living it, but I stared to realise that those things don't matter and I shouldn't let them tear me apart. I am also the type of person who will let things go and even if something upsets me so much, I won't let it out because I don't like other people to get hurt. A quote that gets me through every day might get you thinking: "Beauty begins the moment we decide to be ourselves". And why can't we all just do that? Think what a beautiful world we would live in. Although this blog will feature beauty, lifestyle, photography and fitness posts, it will also feature lots of advice on how to be yourself and be different. At the end of the day, everyone was born into the world to serve a purpose, no matter how small it is and why should we all be the same when we have something to live for? By any means, I am no where near perfect, but at least I am starting to realise that it really shouldn't matter. 




In teenager years I have always thought it was important to have your own space where you can go to escape everything, relax and think. That;s why I have been working on that space in my bedroom - trying to create an organised but cosy space and everyone fees good in different places so it really has to be right for you as an individual. So I have slowly been in the process of trying to add more personal touches to my room - and I am succeeding! It is looking really nice, and I recently added photos in the shape of a heart to my blank wall above my desk - it also becomes a nice way of getting away from revision and homework for a couple of minutes as I can look at them and remember memories from those days. I got a matching duvet and curtain set for christmas and I love them, they are cosy and are just right for my room, especially in the winter. A couple of months ago, I also created a space where I could chill and read magazines, it's a little alcove where I have blankets, pillows and candles. I put fairy lights around the outside of the cupboard and A4 designer posters on the wall.




For now, keep happy :)



Alex Lauren  ♥

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